Monday, November 30, 2009

down on one knee, in a puddle


Maybe there's something in the water....?

On Saturday night, Tom and I got engaged!

He proposed to me on the Milennium Bridge, which is right between St Paul's Cathedral and the Tate Modern, on the Thames. It was where we had our first kiss, on our first date, on a balmy September night two years ago.

On this occasion though, it was pouring with rain! He got down on one knee (in a puddle!) and I couldn't tell where rain stopped and tears began. Everything about it was sweet and funny and romantic and completely us.

I think I will always love the rain now!

We took the bus home, then had a celebratory prosecco in our favourite local pub (who were just about to close, but when we told them we'd just got engaged they let us in!). We were up till about 2am talking to friends and family in Australia, who were all delighted!

It's been a wonderful, happy and surreal 48 hours. I can't stop staring at my beautiful ring! And we keep calling each other "fiance"!!

We are just so happy! I wanted to share it with you :)


"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep
because reality is finally better than your dreams"
- Dr. Seuss

Friday, November 27, 2009

my happy list

1. This poster! I found it via Nadine - it's a free poster you can get via Bliss Chick. I think it's amazing! I'm going to hang it on my inspiration board at home, so I can crash through my cage and fly free! (the writers block "you can't do this" cage, I mean!)

2. Practicing yoga regularly again. I had missed it so much.

3. Salted butter caramels from France, courtesy of the lovely Gillian.

4. Marathon shopping :) The Runner's World competition certainly spurred me on, so my friend Louise and I are going to do one together next year, and it's so much fun trying to decide which one. I think anything before May is a big ask, so May is the earliest I'll do one. Edinburgh, maybe?!

5. Christmas carols. Tom and I are hosting Christmas this year and I've put him in charge of music. It was fun arriving home a few nights ago to carols!

6. Goats cheese. I made a goats cheese custard on the weekend as part of my Christmas dinner main dish auditions (have picked one now!) and swooned upon trying it. Suspect I might be something of a culinary genius with that one ;)

7. New furniture and homewares to play with over the weekend - we did a mammoth trek to the Ikea north of London and came back with a treasure trove. Photo frames, so I can put up some photos from our trip, candles, bowls, vases....the flat is going to be so pretty! And all London readers, go to Ikea at night on a weekday! It's far more civilised!

8. A note my friend Louise wrote for me when she was staying last week. I keep it by my bed and read it when I need a boost. She is so lovely!

9. Australian chardonnay. I recently found a cheap and reliable source for it London, so I think another stop on the weekend will be in order.

10. Doing things just because I can.

11. My wonderful man, who makes every evening a delight, every grocery shop a comedy fest, every walk to the library a moment I want to remember always.

12. My novel. Every time I reread it it's a lot better than I remembered.

13. The music of Mezz Coleman - she has an album coming out really soon, and her music is amazing! So jazzy and uplifting, but perfect for kicking back with a vino as well.

14. Turtleneck sweaters. Ribbed. In red, and black.

15. Baking experiments that turn out well, like the chocolate, date and banana loaf I made on Sunday.

16. Scented candles, especially the beautiful "melts" we brought back from Dusk, in Australia. The "Tibet" scent is my favourite - it smells like fruit and flowers and tea. It's so calming. Some people pour a drink when they get in from work, I light candles.

17. Reading on a chilly night - I've read Molly Fox's Birthday and The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society this week, and loved them both. Compelling, rippled with delicious detail, funny, and one didn't end the way I expected.

18. Realising that sometimes you don't get everything you want, but if you have the love and support of your family and friends, you've got plenty already.

~ Have a h a p p y weekend everyone! ~

Thursday, November 26, 2009

choose your future, not your past



Recently I have been thinking about a mistake I made many years ago.

In my heart of hearts I know that my life right now, and the future I have before me, would not be the fun, amazing, love-filled wild ride that it is without that mistake. I would be somewhere completely different. I would be different.

Still, it laboured on my heart a little. In the cold, puddle littered streets, in the comforting warmth of the tube carriage home. I scribbled down the cacophony of thoughts in my head. Until suddenly, this morning, there were words, words that helped form the most sensible thought I've had on this whole affair.

Choose your future, not your past.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

live the question



Have patience with everything that remains unsolved in your heart.
Try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books written in a foreign language.
Do not now look for the answers.
They cannot now be given to you because you could not live them.
It is a question of experiencing everything.
At present you need to live the question.
Perhaps you will gradually, without even noticing it, find yourself experiencing the answer, some distant day.

[found via Sas]

Sunday, November 22, 2009

please vote for me!

Please please please please please...............................



For what, I hear you asking!!

Let me explain.

Following on from my half marathon in August, I've been bitten by the long distance racing bug in a big way! But having had a few lazy months with two very indulgent holidays, I was wondering how to get my mojo back, so to speak. I got an email from Runner's World magazine the Wednesday before last, as I'm a member of their online community, telling me about a competition they hold every year called the Lucozade Sport Super Six, where they pick 6 runners, all of different experiences and abilities, to run the London Marathon. They get trained by top expert athletes, get nutritional coaching, a full kit including new trainers and a four month supply of Lucozade......and entry into the London Marathon! I don't know whether you guys know much about the London Marathon, but it's one of the hardest races in the world to get into (on your own anyway), it's really not something you can decide to do on a whim!

Despite that, this whim-filled girl filled in her application, sent it off and thought no more about it, until two days later....when I got a phone call to say I'd been shortlisted!!!!!!!!!!!

More than 2000 people applied for a place in the team, so to say I am over the moon to have been shortlisted is a complete understatement! This is a chance I never could have dreamed of. Having had such an amazing experience with my half marathon earlier this year, a full marathon was certainly on my wish list but I did feel that it was a little out of my reach to train for on my own. So, as you can imagine, this really does feel like the opportunity of a lifetime, to be trained by experts!! I've got to have a chance of crossing the line this way ;)

So can I please ask you, dear friends, if you can spare a minute and are a member of Runners World, please log in and vote for me!! (thank you so much to those who already have!)

Here's the page (if you aren't a member you need to sign up before you can vote for me - it doesn't cost anything and will only take a minute):


I am in the sub 5:00 category - which means, based on my time for the half marathon that I did in August, I should be able to complete the marathon in 5 hours or just over. So, if you click on the sub 5:00 category link on the above and you will see me there (my real name, Philippa, is there - not Green Ink - BTW ;P)

Voting closes midday (GMT) on Tuesday, 24th November.

Whatever the outcome, I feel so honoured to have been shortlisted - so please don't feel pressured to sign up or anything, but if you would like to vote, that would be AWESOME!!

Thanks so much everyone! I'll keep you posted!!

UPDATE 26/11/09: Thank you for your votes and support everyone. Unfortunately I missed out on the spot, but am now really psyched to run a marathon somewhere sometime in 2010! I have a feeling I'll make it happen! Thanks again for all the encouragement, I appreciate it so much ♥ x

Friday, November 20, 2009

friday thought

Sunday, November 15, 2009

borough market


Number 26 off the list!

I met up with a dear friend on Saturday morning for "breakfast" at Borough Market - we started off with coffee and a croissant, and then moved on to all the tasting! You don't really need any other food after working your way through all the stalls!

I moved to London in 2007 - why did I wait this long to go and
visit?!

















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